Iddah After Death of Husband
Quran 2:234 — Four months and ten days. This applies to all widows, regardless of whether the marriage was consummated.
- Duration: 4 lunar months + 10 days (approximately 130 days)
- If pregnant: iddah extends until delivery, even if that is longer than 4 months 10 days
- Starts: from the moment of husband's death
- Purpose: To establish paternity certainty and as a period of mourning
Iddah After Divorce (Talaq)
- Duration: 3 complete menstrual cycles (quru')
- For post-menopausal women: 3 lunar months
- For women who have not yet menstruated: 3 lunar months
- If pregnant: until delivery
- Starts: from the date of talaq pronouncement
What Is Permitted During Iddah (After Death)
Permitted
Leaving home for work, education, medical needs. Speaking with non-mahram men for necessary purposes. Receiving proposals (wali accepts, nikah after iddah). Managing household and finances.
Avoided
Remarrying before iddah ends. Elaborate adornment (perfume, jewellery) in majority scholarly view. Moving out of marital home without necessity (though some scholars permit it).
Iddah and Pakistani Law
Pakistani family law recognises iddah. During divorce proceedings, courts factor iddah into maintenance obligations. A husband must provide maintenance (nafaqah) for a divorced wife during her iddah. For widows, the estate is responsible.
Common Questions
Can I wear colours during iddah after death? Scholars differ. The majority say simple clothing without bright adornment. Modern scholars note the principle is avoiding beautification to attract suitors — functional coloured clothing for work is permitted by many.
Can I attend family functions? Weddings, parties with music and dancing — generally avoided during iddah after death. Family gatherings for necessity — generally permitted.
Can I use my phone and social media? Yes. Iddah restrictions are about physical conduct, not communication technology.
Can I receive a marriage proposal? A wali may receive a proposal and give a non-explicit indication of interest. Explicit acceptance only after iddah ends.
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